Conversation ideas are an essential part of socializing. They can spark interesting conversations and debates, help you get to know someone better, or just give you a good laugh. Conversation ideas can come from anywhere: books, movies, TV shows, music, the news, current events, and more!
Conversation ideas include topics such as what you did last weekend, movies or TV shows you’ve seen, books you’ve read, current events in your city or country, music and bands you like, things that make you laugh, personal stories and anecdotes from your life, and debate topics such as politics or religion.
No matter what conversation ideas you come up with, remember to have fun! Conversation should be enjoyable for everyone involved. If a conversation idea seems too serious or boring, just move on to something new. Conversation might seem intimidating at first, but with some practice and preparation, it can be a great way to connect with others.
1. What’s your favorite TV show?
Favorite TV shows can be a way to connect if you both have similar tastes. Or, it could be a chance to learn something new from another person’s perspective. Below are some questions to get the ball rolling:
- What’s a show you could watch on repeat?
- What genre do you usually watch?
- What’s your go-to guilty pleasure show?
2. Have you tried any new recipes recently?
Food can be a great conversation starter, not to mention it’s fun to find out what other people’s favorite dishes are. Ask if they’ve been trying anything new in the kitchen or have family recipes they like to make. Questions like these might help:
- What’s your favorite comfort food dish?
- How often do you cook?
- What would be your dream meal?
3. Tell me about something that made you happy today!
This is a good way to learn more about someone else and share positive news. It also can bring about conversations about current events and experiences. Some prompts include:
- What made you smile today?
- Is there something you’re looking forward to in the next few days?
- What would be your ideal way to spend an afternoon?
4. What’s your favorite movie?
Movies are a great way to pass the time, and they can also be a source of endless conversation topics. Ask what they watch when they need something to lift their spirits or which movie has made them cry. Here are some ideas for questions you might ask:
- What’s the one movie you could watch over and over?
- Do you prefer action movies, comedies, or dramas?
- Have you seen any cult classics lately?
5. Who do you look up to?
This is an interesting topic that can bring about thoughtful conversations and help you understand each other better. Ask who inspires the person you’re talking to and why. Conversation starters could include:
- Who is someone you admire and why?
- Do you have a role model in your life?
- What qualities do you find inspiring in people?
6. What’s your favorite book?
Who doesn’t love a good read? Conversation about books can range from the plot to the characters, and it’s always interesting to find out what someone else is reading. Some conversation starters could be:
- What book have you read most recently?
- Do you prefer fiction or nonfiction?
- What books would you recommend for someone just starting out?
7. What’s your favorite hobby?
We all have things we like to do for fun. Ask about what hobbies the other person likes, and you might find out something new about them. Conversation starters can include:
- What hobby have you been into lately?
- Do you have an activity that helps you relax?
- What would be your dream hobby?
8. What’s your favorite thing to do on a weekend?
Weekends offer a perfect opportunity to take a break and do something you love. Weekend activities may reveal a lot about a person’s interests and personality. Conversation starters can include:
- What’s your favorite way to spend a Saturday?
- Do you like taking weekend trips?
- What do you usually do first when the weekend arrives?
9. What’s your favorite place to go on vacation?
We all need a break from our everyday lives once in a while, and vacations provide the perfect opportunity to explore and make memories. Conversation starters could include:
- Do you prefer beach or mountain vacations?
- Have you been on any interesting trips lately?
- What would be your dream vacation destination?
10. What’s your favorite color?
Colors can be a great conversation starter, as they often come with stories and memories attached. Not everyone has a favorite color, but for those that do, it can be fun to hear what they have to say. Conversation starters could include:
- What color do you find yourself drawn to the most?
- Do you have a favorite color combination?
- When did you first start liking that particular color?
11. What’s your favorite animal?
Animals can bring up interesting stories and memories. You never know what kind of surprise you might get when you ask this question. Conversation starters could include:
- Do you have a pet?
- What kind of animal do you find yourself drawn to the most?
- Have you ever had an animal that made a special impact on your life?
12. What’s your favorite type of music?
Music is a great way to explore different cultures and styles. Everyone likes different genres, and it can be interesting to see what the other person prefers. Conversation starters could include:
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- What genre do you like the most?
- Do you prefer live or recorded music?
- Who is your all-time favorite musician/group?
13. What’s your favorite sports team?
This is a fun conversation starter, as it often leads to debates and good-natured joking. Most people who are into sports have teams that they root for and follow, so it’s always interesting to see who the other person supports. Conversation starters could include:
- What sports do you like to watch?
- Who is your favorite team?
- Do you have any special traditions when watching games?
14. Do you have any siblings?
Siblings can be a great source of conversation. We all have different relationships with our siblings, and it’s often interesting to hear how the other person feels about theirs. Conversation starters could include:
- Do you get along well with your siblings?
- What do they do for a living?
- Do you have any funny stories involving your siblings?
15. Do you have any kids?
Kids always bring up interesting conversations. Most people love talking about their children, and it’s always nice to hear what the other person is going through. Conversation starters could include:
- How many kids do you have?
- What do they like doing in their free time?
- Do you have any funny stories involving your children?
16. How old are you?
Not everyone is comfortable talking about their age, but for those that don’t mind, it can be a great conversation starter. Even if you just make a comment about different generations, it can be a great way to start talking. Conversation starters could include:
- I think we are around the same age, what year were you born?
- Do you think people our age have different experiences than older generations?
- What do you like about being the age that you are now?
17. Where are you from originally?
This is a great conversation starter, as most people have interesting stories about their birthplace. You might even learn something new about the other person’s culture or history. Conversation starters could include:
- What was it like growing up in the place you were born?
- Have you been back since you moved away?
- Do you still keep in touch with friends and family from your hometown?
18. Where do you live now?
This is another great conversation starter. It’s always interesting to hear what kind of places the other person has lived in and why they chose that particular place. Conversation starters could include:
- What do you like most about the city you live in now?
- Have you lived in other places before?
- Do you think you will stay in the same city for a while?
19. What do you do for a living?
This question can often lead to an interesting discussion. It’s always nice to know what the other person does for a living and how they got there. Conversation starters could include:
- What made you decide on this type of career?
- Do you still enjoy it after all these years?
- What do you like most about your job?
20. Do you speak any other languages?
Many people can speak more than one language and it’s always fascinating to hear about their experiences learning new languages. Conversation starters could include:
- What made you decide to learn another language?
- What do you think is the hardest thing about learning a language?
- Do you prefer speaking your native language or the other one?
21. What’s your favorite season?
Most people have a favorite season, and it’s always nice to hear why they prefer that particular time of year more than the others. Conversation starters could include:
- What is your favorite thing to do during that season?
- Do you have any special traditions during that season?
- What do you think is the best thing about your favorite season?
22. Who is your favorite celebrity?
This is a great conversation starter, as people often have interesting stories about their favorite celebrities. Conversation starters could include:
- How did you first become interested in this particular celebrity?
- Do you follow them on social media or watch their movies/shows?
- What do you think makes them so special to you?
23. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
Most people fall into one of these two categories, so it’s always interesting to hear why they prefer one over the other. Conversation starters could include:
- What do you like doing in the mornings/nights?
- Do you find that your productivity levels change depending on when you’re most active?
- What do you think are the benefits and disadvantages of being a morning person/night owl?
24. What’s your favorite drink?
This is another great conversation starter, as everyone has a favorite drink. Some people prefer coffee over tea while others might like a certain cocktail or soda. Conversation starters could include:
- What do you like most about your favorite drink?
- Do you ever try to mix it with any other ingredients?
- What do you think makes it your favorite drink?
25. Where did you go to school?
Talking about college or university experiences can be a great conversation starter. Not everyone went to the same school, so it’s interesting to hear about the different experiences. Conversation starters could include:
- What was your favorite class in college/university?
- Do you still keep in touch with any of your classmates?
- What was one thing that really stands out from your time in school?
26. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
This question can often lead to an interesting discussion, as it’s always fun to hear about other peoples’ adventures and misadventures! Conversation starters could include:
- Where did this crazy experience take place?
- Did anyone else join you on this adventure?
- How did you feel afterward when looking back on it?
27. How did you meet your spouse/partner (for people in relationships)?
This is a great conversation starter for those who are in relationships, as there’s often an interesting story behind how they met. Conversation starters could include:
- What drew you to each other?
- Do you remember your first date?
- How did you know they were the one?
28. What’s your favorite quote?
Quotes can often be a source of inspiration and motivation, so it’s always nice to hear what others find meaningful. Conversation starters could include:
- Who said it originally?
- What made you decide to remember this quote?
- Do you think the meaning behind the quote has changed over time for you?
29. What is the one thing that scares you the most?
This can be a difficult question to answer, but it’s often intriguing to hear what others are afraid of. Conversation starters could include:
- Why do you think this particular thing scares you?
- Do you think this fear is rational or irrational?
- What do you usually do to try and overcome this fear?
30. What is one place that you have always wanted to visit and why?
Traveling is a great conversation starter, as many people have an interesting story behind their dream destination. Conversation starters could include:
- Where did you first hear about this particular place?
- What do you imagine it would be like when you finally get there?
- Are there any activities in particular that you would like to do while visiting this place?
These are just a few conversation starters to get the ball rolling. Conversation can be an amazing way to connect with someone, so don’t be afraid to ask questions and share stories! Good luck!
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